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Quoting nubianchocolate:
Before you even invite her into the bedroom, light sweet scented candles such as 5 Feng Shui Candle Set Square, which are small, but create a really relaxing environment. You also want to give the room a whole different environment and instead of re-decorating, sometimes just changing the bedding can make a difference in a room. If you don't feel like picking out all the pieces, you can just buy beds in a bag sets by Luxury Satin Queen Comforter 4 piece Bedding Set, Navy. To really make the occasion special, without buying a whole new set, just get sheets with really high thread counts, such as Pike Street 800-Thread-Count Sateen Queen Sheet Set, White. Suggested body oils to use can be K-Y Touch Massage 2-in-1 Warming Body Massage & Lubricant - Variety Pack. Next turn the lights down low, and play her favorite love songs, whatever they might be, remember the music is for her mood. Once you've created this atmosphere, it is now time to begin the massage. Ask your woman lay down on the bed with nothing on. Straddle her hips and start with her temples. Gentle circular motions and every once in a while rub across her forehead with your thumbs and return to the temples. Move down to the muscles behind her ears. Keep your motions circular and fluid as possible, taking your time and getting her to relax. Move to her neck and then shoulders. Make sure you start with the muscles on the side of the spine on the nape and then move and slide down to the muscles above the collarbone. Give the shoulders a lot of attention applying a little more pressure, but remember you?re not kneading dough! You are massaging a woman. Take one hand and rest it on your shoulder as you lean over her. Start at the shoulder and with anvil strokes move up past the elbow to the wrist and palm. Make sure you massage each finger with firm stokes. Switch arms and give the other one just as much attention. I even suggest doing it twice to each arm. Once you?re done, move back to the shoulders and with just your fingers tips and a lot of firmness massage the breastplate moving around the breasts ? don?t touch the breasts, yet. You?ll use this method all over the chest and stomach, moving down to the waist and then back up the area above the breasts. If you were using any oils, even the high end oils by Kama Sutra Massage Oil 8 oz -- Pleasure Garden or lotions to massage, this would be the time to dry your hands to remove any chemicals. Never apply any foreign materials to the nipples or breast unless you have your woman?s permission. Some substances can change the texture of the skin and make them less sensitive. Starting at the bottom of the breast, tenderly cup them until your entire palms are fully over the nipple. You are going to do the wave with your palm with firm pressure (not the squeeze and relief method - that's just annoying and she may be prone to knock your hand away); after a minute, switch to a circular motion. DON?T SQUEEZE. Your object is not to try to arouse, but to relax her and to get her to sensually respond to what you?re doing. Your woman might want to stop and proceed to something else. Refuse. Don?t let her take over what you are doing. You want to complete the entire massage even if you are both ready to do something else. For a woman the journey to pleasure is always better than reaching the object. Give the breast at least five minutes or longer. Do not purposely directly arouse the nipples. This will be prohibited initially. Once you have completely touched every nook and cranny of her upper area ? don?t forget the side of her chest - you may move down to her hips. You can adjust yourself to move down and squat over her knees or better yet, if you slightly part the thighs and sit between them, it does create a much tantalizing experience for you (visually) and your woman. For each leg, you can either do them simultaneously first or follow the method you did for her arms by resting her foot on your chest. Either way, you?re going to perform both methods on her legs, giving special attention to the large muscles in the thigh, the calf muscle and especially her feet. On the feet make sure you increase the firmness because you don?t want it to tickle, which will become a distraction. When you are done, have her lie on her stomach. Start at her ankles and move up. You?ll add a lot of pressure to the back of her thighs, her buttocks (spend a lot of time there) and the bottom of her back ? which is where a lot of woman can be extremely tensed. Do not rub down on the spine. If you wish, you many very very gently massage using the tips of your thumbs down the middle, but no pressure is allowed. Sometimes that can be painful or very very uncomfortable. Move up the back ? also taking care of the sides ? kneading the muscles firmly. You may ask her what type of pressure you may apply to the various muscles in the back. For each woman it may differ, so don?t just assume you?re dealing with your ex-girlfriend. If she is extremely ticklish, hard pressure may cause pain to her. Once you return to her shoulders from behind, use your thumbs to rub her nape and if she does not have on a wig or weave ? or don?t mind you messing up her hair -you may even go so far as to massage her scalp. Now that you have completed a full body massage for your woman, you may now start the process from the beginning with your mouth! And this time, don't miss one inch of skin! The next step is to read eating at the Y which is what any man in his right mind should be doing next. Nubianchocolate
Before you even invite her into the bedroom, light sweet scented candles such as 5 Feng Shui Candle Set Square, which are small, but create a really relaxing environment. You also want to give the room a whole different environment and instead of re-decorating, sometimes just changing the bedding can make a difference in a room. If you don't feel like picking out all the pieces, you can just buy beds in a bag sets by Luxury Satin Queen Comforter 4 piece Bedding Set, Navy. To really make the occasion special, without buying a whole new set, just get sheets with really high thread counts, such as Pike Street 800-Thread-Count Sateen Queen Sheet Set, White. Suggested body oils to use can be K-Y Touch Massage 2-in-1 Warming Body Massage & Lubricant - Variety Pack. Next turn the lights down low, and play her favorite love songs, whatever they might be, remember the music is for her mood. Once you've created this atmosphere, it is now time to begin the massage. Ask your woman lay down on the bed with nothing on. Straddle her hips and start with her temples. Gentle circular motions and every once in a while rub across her forehead with your thumbs and return to the temples. Move down to the muscles behind her ears. Keep your motions circular and fluid as possible, taking your time and getting her to relax. Move to her neck and then shoulders. Make sure you start with the muscles on the side of the spine on the nape and then move and slide down to the muscles above the collarbone. Give the shoulders a lot of attention applying a little more pressure, but remember you?re not kneading dough! You are massaging a woman. Take one hand and rest it on your shoulder as you lean over her. Start at the shoulder and with anvil strokes move up past the elbow to the wrist and palm. Make sure you massage each finger with firm stokes. Switch arms and give the other one just as much attention. I even suggest doing it twice to each arm. Once you?re done, move back to the shoulders and with just your fingers tips and a lot of firmness massage the breastplate moving around the breasts ? don?t touch the breasts, yet. You?ll use this method all over the chest and stomach, moving down to the waist and then back up the area above the breasts. If you were using any oils, even the high end oils by Kama Sutra Massage Oil 8 oz -- Pleasure Garden or lotions to massage, this would be the time to dry your hands to remove any chemicals. Never apply any foreign materials to the nipples or breast unless you have your woman?s permission. Some substances can change the texture of the skin and make them less sensitive. Starting at the bottom of the breast, tenderly cup them until your entire palms are fully over the nipple. You are going to do the wave with your palm with firm pressure (not the squeeze and relief method - that's just annoying and she may be prone to knock your hand away); after a minute, switch to a circular motion. DON?T SQUEEZE. Your object is not to try to arouse, but to relax her and to get her to sensually respond to what you?re doing. Your woman might want to stop and proceed to something else. Refuse. Don?t let her take over what you are doing. You want to complete the entire massage even if you are both ready to do something else. For a woman the journey to pleasure is always better than reaching the object. Give the breast at least five minutes or longer. Do not purposely directly arouse the nipples. This will be prohibited initially. Once you have completely touched every nook and cranny of her upper area ? don?t forget the side of her chest - you may move down to her hips. You can adjust yourself to move down and squat over her knees or better yet, if you slightly part the thighs and sit between them, it does create a much tantalizing experience for you (visually) and your woman. For each leg, you can either do them simultaneously first or follow the method you did for her arms by resting her foot on your chest. Either way, you?re going to perform both methods on her legs, giving special attention to the large muscles in the thigh, the calf muscle and especially her feet. On the feet make sure you increase the firmness because you don?t want it to tickle, which will become a distraction. When you are done, have her lie on her stomach. Start at her ankles and move up. You?ll add a lot of pressure to the back of her thighs, her buttocks (spend a lot of time there) and the bottom of her back ? which is where a lot of woman can be extremely tensed. Do not rub down on the spine. If you wish, you many very very gently massage using the tips of your thumbs down the middle, but no pressure is allowed. Sometimes that can be painful or very very uncomfortable. Move up the back ? also taking care of the sides ? kneading the muscles firmly. You may ask her what type of pressure you may apply to the various muscles in the back. For each woman it may differ, so don?t just assume you?re dealing with your ex-girlfriend. If she is extremely ticklish, hard pressure may cause pain to her. Once you return to her shoulders from behind, use your thumbs to rub her nape and if she does not have on a wig or weave ? or don?t mind you messing up her hair -you may even go so far as to massage her scalp. Now that you have completed a full body massage for your woman, you may now start the process from the beginning with your mouth! And this time, don't miss one inch of skin! The next step is to read eating at the Y which is what any man in his right mind should be doing next. Nubianchocolate
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