Well i have been single now since Jan. It hasn't been something im used to. The break-up didnn't end well and like most relationships ending you always think you know someone, until they are out of your life, or fading from it. I listened to Just friends by Amy Winehouse for days. I cried, skipped work, and let it affect me more than i shouldv'e. I got over it, still bites. Yet i carried on. One day i hope i find just one woman to bide my time and life with.
Well i have been single now since Jan. It hasn't been something im used to. The break-up didnn't end well and like most relationships ending you always think you know someone, until they are out of your life, or fading from it. I listened to Just friends by Amy Winehouse for days. I cried, skipped work, and let it affect me more than i shouldv'e. I got over it, still bites. Yet i carried on. One day i hope i find just one woman to bide my time and life with.
I am sorry. I have been single my whole life. and I really do feel for people who are not longer in their long term relationships. I dont know how they do it. I live this lifestyle and it has GREAT UPS and it has some serious downs. YOU HANG IN THERE. and dont jump to the next woman until you feel you have brought your heart and happiness to her.
I am sorry. I have been single my whole life. and I really do feel for people who are not longer in their long term relationships. I dont know how they do it. I live this lifestyle and it has GREAT UPS and it has some serious downs. YOU HANG IN THERE. and dont jump to the next woman until you feel you have brought your heart and happiness to her.
Everything happens for a reason. Even if the only reason is that we learn what not to do.Keep your chin up..and take things slow and easy. Make sure you have stowed all the old bagage(preferably in the trash bin) before you try to jump into another relationship. It is OK to just have friends for awhile you know. Wish ya the best.
Everything happens for a reason. Even if the only reason is that we learn what not to do.Keep your chin up..and take things slow and easy. Make sure you have stowed all the old bagage(preferably in the trash bin) before you try to jump into another relationship. It is OK to just have friends for awhile you know. Wish ya the best.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the REASON you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to MOVE ON.
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend and they are. They are there for the REASON you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to MOVE ON.
Mourning is normal. Keep looking inside yourself, come to terms with who you are and try to be a better person today than you were yesterday. That special someone will show up, usually about the time you come to terms with yourself and your life. Sounds like you're well on the way! Good luck.
Mourning is normal. Keep looking inside yourself, come to terms with who you are and try to be a better person today than you were yesterday. That special someone will show up, usually about the time you come to terms with yourself and your life. Sounds like you're well on the way! Good luck.
Finding true love is a process, I do not know of many who have found it on the first try. Stay positive and go on with your life. What was lost was probably not in the best interest for you in the long term
Finding true love is a process, I do not know of many who have found it on the first try. Stay positive and go on with your life. What was lost was probably not in the best interest for you in the long term
To me one of the most invaluable human assets we possess is resiliency - the ability to bounce back from and/or successfully adapt to adverse conditions. The ability to recover and move forward truly rates up there with the ability to love and forgive. To a lot of people (including myself), all three at times, have been no easy feat to accomplish. However, when we do accomplish them, we eventually survive and prosper in these areas.
A very grounding blog, thanks for sharing.
To me one of the most invaluable human assets we possess is resiliency - the ability to bounce back from and/or successfully adapt to adverse conditions. The ability to recover and move forward truly rates up there with the ability to love and forgive. To a lot of people (including myself), all three at times, have been no easy feat to accomplish. However, when we do accomplish them, we eventually survive and prosper in these areas.
