Quoting: Originally posted by rumplestilskin2010 ]quote[that is crazy, what does it mean to be black enough or white enough,]quote[
of course it is... if you want the whites to be whiter, use a high quality detergent and a good whitener or bleach... and it just follows that if your blacks aren't black enough, then you need to soak them in cold water and use a mild detergent so your black items don't lighten or fade...
Also turning blacks inside out will help with the no fading.
p.s. You should add to your profile you know how to do laundry - that's a big plus!
Quoting rumplestilskin2010:
]quote[that is crazy, what does it mean to be black enough or white enough,]quote[
of course it is... if you want the whites to be whiter, use a high quality detergent and a good whitener or bleach... and it just follows that if your blacks aren't black enough, then you need to soak them in cold water and use a mild detergent so your black items don't lighten or fade...
Also turning blacks inside out will help with the no fading.
p.s. You should add to your profile you know how to do laundry - that's a big plus!
]quote[On another note, how does a quality SBF go about meeting a quality SWM? I've considering doing something that I've never done before, which is walking up to a SWM to express my interest]quote[
Young lady, If you approach a SWM and he's anything other than completely flattered, there's something wrong with HIM. You go girl......
]quote[On another note, how does a quality SBF go about meeting a quality SWM? I've considering doing something that I've never done before, which is walking up to a SWM to express my interest]quote[
Young lady, If you approach a SWM and he's anything other than completely flattered, there's something wrong with HIM. You go girl......
I'd consider myself to be a quality SBF. I make pretty good money, goal-oriented, intelligent, very attractive and pretty darn well-rounded. Being in Atlanta, GA, it seems that these qualities come a dime a dozen. So, I mention this only because there shouldn't be an issue finding quality SBF's. The issue may be your approach when you actually speak with her. If your perception of a black woman is what you see on tv or music video. Likewise, if your approach mirrors that perception, I think you may have found your problem. If this doesn't apply to you, I apologize.. but I've noticed that SOME SWM date black women because they expect us to be a different from white women. When comparing a GOOD whie woman to a GOOD black woman, I don't think there really are any differences. :)
On another note, how does a quality SBF go about meeting a quality SWM? I've considering doing something that I've never done before, which is walking up to a SWM to express my interest. I don't have an issue with getting men to approach me. It's just getting the men I'm interested in to approach me. Quality SWM, where are you?
I'd consider myself to be a quality SBF. I make pretty good money, goal-oriented, intelligent, very attractive and pretty darn well-rounded. Being in Atlanta, GA, it seems that these qualities come a dime a dozen. So, I mention this only because there shouldn't be an issue finding quality SBF's. The issue may be your approach when you actually speak with her. If your perception of a black woman is what you see on tv or music video. Likewise, if your approach mirrors that perception, I think you may have found your problem. If this doesn't apply to you, I apologize.. but I've noticed that SOME SWM date black women because they expect us to be a different from white women. When comparing a GOOD whie woman to a GOOD black woman, I don't think there really are any differences. :)
On another note, how does a quality SBF go about meeting a quality SWM? I've considering doing something that I've never done before, which is walking up to a SWM to express my interest. I don't have an issue with getting men to approach me. It's just getting the men I'm interested in to approach me. Quality SWM, where are you?
I'd consider myself to be a quality SBF. I make pretty good money, goal-oriented, intelligent, very attractive and pretty darn well-rounded. Being in Atlanta, GA, it seems that these qualities come a dime a dozen. So, I mention this only because there shouldn't be an issue finding quality SBF's. The issue may be your approach when you actually speak with her. If your perception of a black woman is what you see on tv or music video. Likewise, if your approach mirrors that perception, I think you may have found your problem. If this doesn't apply to you, I apologize.. but I've noticed that SOME SWM date black women because they expect us to be a different from white women. When comparing a GOOD whie woman to a GOOD black woman, I don't think there really are any differences. :)
On another note, how does a quality SBF go about meeting a quality SWM? I've considering doing something that I've never done before, which is walking up to a SWM to express my interest. I don't have an issue with getting men to approach me. It's just getting the men I'm interested in to approach me. Quality SWM, where are you?
I'd consider myself to be a quality SBF. I make pretty good money, goal-oriented, intelligent, very attractive and pretty darn well-rounded. Being in Atlanta, GA, it seems that these qualities come a dime a dozen. So, I mention this only because there shouldn't be an issue finding quality SBF's. The issue may be your approach when you actually speak with her. If your perception of a black woman is what you see on tv or music video. Likewise, if your approach mirrors that perception, I think you may have found your problem. If this doesn't apply to you, I apologize.. but I've noticed that SOME SWM date black women because they expect us to be a different from white women. When comparing a GOOD whie woman to a GOOD black woman, I don't think there really are any differences. :)
On another note, how does a quality SBF go about meeting a quality SWM? I've considering doing something that I've never done before, which is walking up to a SWM to express my interest. I don't have an issue with getting men to approach me. It's just getting the men I'm interested in to approach me. Quality SWM, where are you?
]quote[that is crazy, what does it mean to be black enough or white enough,]quote[
of course it is... if you want the whites to be whiter, use a high quality detergent and a good whitener or bleach... and it just follows that if your blacks aren't black enough, then you need to soak them in cold water and use a mild detergent so your black items don't lighten or fade...
]quote[that is crazy, what does it mean to be black enough or white enough,]quote[
of course it is... if you want the whites to be whiter, use a high quality detergent and a good whitener or bleach... and it just follows that if your blacks aren't black enough, then you need to soak them in cold water and use a mild detergent so your black items don't lighten or fade...
that is crazy, what does it mean to be black enough or white enough, you are who you are and both of those ppl were losers, but back to the original topic, yes there are an abundance of SBF out there, but the questions is, which ones are for you,?? but yes you can find them
that is crazy, what does it mean to be black enough or white enough, you are who you are and both of those ppl were losers, but back to the original topic, yes there are an abundance of SBF out there, but the questions is, which ones are for you,?? but yes you can find them
yes there are plenty out here....i am one of them. new to the site so trying to get my feet wet....have u enjoyed the site so far. have u ever dated interacially?
yes there are plenty out here....i am one of them. new to the site so trying to get my feet wet....have u enjoyed the site so far. have u ever dated interacially?
Hello ALl: So, here I am, reading this and can't help but to wonder what is wrong? I dated this WM, whom I was not not black enough nor curvy enough....Then I dated this BM whom I was not white enough for and so I ask myself? does anyone see me for who I really am? A sweet, smart,and above all a WOMAN
Hello ALl: So, here I am, reading this and can't help but to wonder what is wrong? I dated this WM, whom I was not not black enough nor curvy enough....Then I dated this BM whom I was not white enough for and so I ask myself? does anyone see me for who I really am? A sweet, smart,and above all a WOMAN
