What does that even tell a girl when you are in bed with a fella and nothing is even tried while you fall asleep just cuddling? REALLY REALLY sweet? Or uninterested?
Just rare in my experience. So from a male's point of vew - was he a bad closer? Or maybe could I have seemed too stand offish, or was it a good play to keep me wondering and waiting for another night....
What does that even tell a girl when you are in bed with a fella and nothing is even tried while you fall asleep just cuddling? REALLY REALLY sweet? Or uninterested?
Just rare in my experience. So from a male's point of vew - was he a bad closer? Or maybe could I have seemed too stand offish, or was it a good play to keep me wondering and waiting for another night....
Well...I've moved on since cuddle boy. Who actually is a good friend of mine now. I never did ask about what his deal was, but I know that he "likes the chase".
Now I am interested in yet another younger man. 4 years. Is that younger? Eh, I am sure he is not just about cuddling. All I know so far is he thinks I am amazing and gives great hugs.
Well...I've moved on since cuddle boy. Who actually is a good friend of mine now. I never did ask about what his deal was, but I know that he "likes the chase".
Now I am interested in yet another younger man. 4 years. Is that younger? Eh, I am sure he is not just about cuddling. All I know so far is he thinks I am amazing and gives great hugs.
Gosh, this seemed so easy to me. A nice guy that likes to cuddle and invite you out, with his friends... Fantastic! I would love if a man just wanted to cuddle instead of all that other stuff. Sex is almost too much troublethese days. I vote for the Cuddle!
Gosh, this seemed so easy to me. A nice guy that likes to cuddle and invite you out, with his friends... Fantastic! I would love if a man just wanted to cuddle instead of all that other stuff. Sex is almost too much troublethese days. I vote for the Cuddle!
It's all about the Touch with Cuddler...so this is what I found....
"They're all grand ? hearing and smell and sight and taste, but touch ? touch is elemental. There's no kidding about touch; touch is a biological necessity without which the body as well as the soul falters"
It's all about the Touch with Cuddler...so this is what I found....
"They're all grand ? hearing and smell and sight and taste, but touch ? touch is elemental. There's no kidding about touch; touch is a biological necessity without which the body as well as the soul falters"
Cuddling is supposed to come after the fact. All right. He got me in the bed. Now if the brother isn't even feelin me to even touch me in any kind of way or kiss me; no passion no nothing? It's not workin for me....:)
Cuddling is supposed to come after the fact. All right. He got me in the bed. Now if the brother isn't even feelin me to even touch me in any kind of way or kiss me; no passion no nothing? It's not workin for me....:)
Quoting: Originally posted by tepring Haha Jean, nope not Buddhist, or an athlete...So this is the third and final (most likely) chapter of the cuddler story. So he is the last to leave my party on friday night, and then invites me to go with him and his friend from NY cliff diving on Saturday. The boys jumped, I watched. (It was awesome, beautiful weather, great adventure getting lost in the woods!) Then cuddler asks me to come to dinner and go out with them later...I put on my knee-high-come-get-me-boots and then we all come back to my place after the bars close. And we are doing what we do best..cuddling, he is touching my legs, I am rubbing his neck...we go back to my bed, and NOTHING but cuddles. So I get up to give his friend on the couch a blanket and pillows...and well the friend and I ended up making out for 2 hours! (and he is one year younger than cuddler - 22!) So I don't know what the deal was with cuddler, but to little too late. ;)
So we will never know???? Oh no! Could you ask him for us? Just tell him you want to know so you can post it on the blog because everyone is curious.... ok just kidding. Maybe ask the friend if he knows? Is he trans-gendered and a woman physically? Or hasn't yet had the guts to break up with a current girlfriend? Impotent?
Quoting tepring:
Haha Jean, nope not Buddhist, or an athlete...So this is the third and final (most likely) chapter of the cuddler story. So he is the last to leave my party on friday night, and then invites me to go with him and his friend from NY cliff diving on Saturday. The boys jumped, I watched. (It was awesome, beautiful weather, great adventure getting lost in the woods!) Then cuddler asks me to come to dinner and go out with them later...I put on my knee-high-come-get-me-boots and then we all come back to my place after the bars close. And we are doing what we do best..cuddling, he is touching my legs, I am rubbing his neck...we go back to my bed, and NOTHING but cuddles. So I get up to give his friend on the couch a blanket and pillows...and well the friend and I ended up making out for 2 hours! (and he is one year younger than cuddler - 22!) So I don't know what the deal was with cuddler, but to little too late. ;)
So we will never know???? Oh no! Could you ask him for us? Just tell him you want to know so you can post it on the blog because everyone is curious.... ok just kidding. Maybe ask the friend if he knows? Is he trans-gendered and a woman physically? Or hasn't yet had the guts to break up with a current girlfriend? Impotent?
Haha Jean, nope not Buddhist, or an athlete...So this is the third and final (most likely) chapter of the cuddler story. So he is the last to leave my party on friday night, and then invites me to go with him and his friend from NY cliff diving on Saturday. The boys jumped, I watched. (It was awesome, beautiful weather, great adventure getting lost in the woods!) Then cuddler asks me to come to dinner and go out with them later...I put on my knee-high-come-get-me-boots and then we all come back to my place after the bars close. And we are doing what we do best..cuddling, he is touching my legs, I am rubbing his neck...we go back to my bed, and NOTHING but cuddles. So I get up to give his friend on the couch a blanket and pillows...and well the friend and I ended up making out for 2 hours! (and he is one year younger than cuddler - 22!) So I don't know what the deal was with cuddler, but to little too late. ;)
Haha Jean, nope not Buddhist, or an athlete...So this is the third and final (most likely) chapter of the cuddler story. So he is the last to leave my party on friday night, and then invites me to go with him and his friend from NY cliff diving on Saturday. The boys jumped, I watched. (It was awesome, beautiful weather, great adventure getting lost in the woods!) Then cuddler asks me to come to dinner and go out with them later...I put on my knee-high-come-get-me-boots and then we all come back to my place after the bars close. And we are doing what we do best..cuddling, he is touching my legs, I am rubbing his neck...we go back to my bed, and NOTHING but cuddles. So I get up to give his friend on the couch a blanket and pillows...and well the friend and I ended up making out for 2 hours! (and he is one year younger than cuddler - 22!) So I don't know what the deal was with cuddler, but to little too late. ;)
Quoting: Originally posted by tepring Well he is allergic to animals, so maybe he misses his stuffed bear, b/c again not even a HINT of trying to kiss me while he was enveloping me with his embrace all night. But he's piqued my interest - good tactic to maintain my attention =)
and definitely not in-to-mating haha
I keep checking in here curious to the answer of this mystery.
Maybe he sees you as a friend only? Only gets involved intimately in a committed relationship? An athlete and is reserving his 'energy'? Buddhist?
Quoting tepring:
Well he is allergic to animals, so maybe he misses his stuffed bear, b/c again not even a HINT of trying to kiss me while he was enveloping me with his embrace all night. But he's piqued my interest - good tactic to maintain my attention =)
and definitely not in-to-mating haha
I keep checking in here curious to the answer of this mystery.
Maybe he sees you as a friend only? Only gets involved intimately in a committed relationship? An athlete and is reserving his 'energy'? Buddhist?
Well he is allergic to animals, so maybe he misses his stuffed bear, b/c again not even a HINT of trying to kiss me while he was enveloping me with his embrace all night. But he's piqued my interest - good tactic to maintain my attention =)
and definitely not in-to-mating haha
Well he is allergic to animals, so maybe he misses his stuffed bear, b/c again not even a HINT of trying to kiss me while he was enveloping me with his embrace all night. But he's piqued my interest - good tactic to maintain my attention =)
few drinks... couch... cuddles...??? in that order...??? a. misses his dog b. misses his cat... c. misses his teddy bear... d. misses his momma... e. misses his fave pillow... f. misses his blankey... g. not even a teensy weensy lip peck...??? h. can't find his thumb...
]quote[Ok so tonight the cuddler invited me over for dinner "with is roommates and a few friends]quote[ witness protection program or group grope...???
intimate intimidating into me into mating....
n.n.n.n.n.n.n.n flag...!!! FLAG...!!! FLAG...!!!
few drinks... couch... cuddles...??? in that order...??? a. misses his dog b. misses his cat... c. misses his teddy bear... d. misses his momma... e. misses his fave pillow... f. misses his blankey... g. not even a teensy weensy lip peck...??? h. can't find his thumb...
]quote[Ok so tonight the cuddler invited me over for dinner "with is roommates and a few friends]quote[ witness protection program or group grope...???
Ok so tonight the cuddler invited me over for dinner "with is roommates and a few friends" I'll let you know if he is just a cuddler or what....if no kiss, then game over. no more lives. ;)
Ok so tonight the cuddler invited me over for dinner "with is roommates and a few friends" I'll let you know if he is just a cuddler or what....if no kiss, then game over. no more lives. ;)
